Money & the Idealist
Delicate. Complex. Fleetingly real. Reach for it, and it slips through your fingers. Open up to the possibilities, and it lands on your hand. Or it may not. Do what you love and money will follow. Or it may not. That’s what money is like to an idealist!
After a long sad story of server blips and eventually needing to abandon my previous Idealist’s Money Blog, I’m back at it again. I believe money is a deep and intermingled issue, and once again, I’ve created seven categories for exploration.
Money & Personality Type
All types have our strengths and weaknesses, but from what I’ve seen and experienced, introverted intuitive-feelers struggle with money – a lot – either with how to work with it, or how to earn enough of it. We seem to lack the “money gene.”
For one, money is an extravert’s turf. It has to be. To sell something, you have to have a buyer. To work, you have to have an employer. You need someone (usually lots of someones) on the other end who wants what you have to give or sell.
I will base most of my discussion on Jungian personality types. For more information on Jungian personality types, see http://www.typelogic.com/ for starters.
Money & Gender
Personally, I’m not crazy about anything that makes women “the problem” (or men either, for that matter). But from what I’ve seen, money may indeed be different for women than for men, and some credible people have recommended books to me, so there must be something to it. Therefore, the category is here, and I’ll be exploring this side of money, too.
Money & Business
Currently, I own a business, and I know many other business owners who are – Idealists! too. In fact, that’s why we’re in business – to make a difference in the world, and to do it our own way. But no matter how good we are, or how many people whose lives we touch, if we don’t make money, we don’t stay in business.
The fact is, a business exists to make money. If you don’t make money, you don’t have a business. You may be doing something very good, but it’s not a business.
So here we are, entrepreneurs in a pursuit that seems directly antithetical to our purpose in life. Yet we’ve made it our purpose in life to keep it going. It requires being two people: an idealist and a business manager. Or it requires a paradigm shift. So here is a space to explore making money as idealistic business owners.
Money & Culture
This one has my attention. Idealists like things to be “fair.” But throughout history, the distribution of money has never been “fair.” To complicate matters, Americans like to believe we are fair. But deep down, we know we are not. Some of us have never been poor. Some of us have always been poor. Some have been born into wealthy homes, and lost what we had. Some had humble beginnings, and for some odd reason we know isn’t fair, we suddenly have more than we know what to do with, and racing past our peers. So therein lies the question: What am I worth? And what does that mean in a system that’s not fair?
Could our understanding of our role in society really affect our relationship with money? For most, maybe not. For an idealist, I think so. That’s why I have to explore this.
Money & Myth
Especially appealing to the intuitive-feeling understanding of life. How money appears in mythology, how humans now and through the ages have dealt with money on a spiritual level.
Money & Ourselves
The day to day detail of managing money. What does it say about our personal lives?
Money in General
Everything else.
Comments?
Comments(1)
Marki,
Have finally visited your blog and love it! I will subscribe… I already have had some new insight on my relationship with money, from reading one installment. I thought to myself, “No wonder I am so uncomfortable taking money. I get my self-esteem in a big way from being seen as a giver, not a taker. Also, it isn’t that I don’t value what I give, it’s that when someone pays money for it, there is part of me that finds that DEvaluing… as if they are saying, “Now I’ve paid you with money, and there is no other value to what you have given me.” It is that the relationship is no longer participatory, which is what I am always looking for. I have a lot of thinking to do on that one. Looking forward to more installments, thanks, Marki!
-Anne